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Proud foster mom Suzannah with Roald Dahl Nurse Lisa and Max (Image: RDMCC)
Two proud foster-parents have instructed how their son’s exuberant love of life within the face of extreme incapacity has been a strong inspiration to them.
Suzannah and Andy Goodchild say the challenges they face caring for his or her fostered son Max are matched solely by the enjoyment and “fizzy energy” he brings to their dwelling.
Max is simply ten and is unable to stroll or speak due to his advanced medical wants. He is registered blind and experiences epileptic seizures on daily basis.
If he may converse, there isn’t any approach Max would inform a tragic story, say his household.
Every day he exhibits them how a lot he loves life revelling within the sensations of sound, odor and contact.
Suzannah Goodchild and Roald Dahl Nurse Lisa Smith take care of Max (Image: RDMCC)
Herbs within the backyard present his favorite scents and tactile objects equivalent to Lego his favorite toys.
Max got here to stay with Suzannah, 54, a lecturer and now full-time foster mom, and Andy, 59, a painter and decorator at their dwelling close to St Albans, Herts, six years in the past when he was 4 years previous.
He had misplaced his mom to most cancers and Andy and Suzannah had lately misplaced their son Freddie, who was born with disabilities, to an undiagnosed coronary heart and lung situation when he was simply 12.
The couple and their three youthful kids, Oscar, now 18, Nancy, 16 and Kitty, 13, have been left reeling by what Suzannah describes as a “brutal” lack of Freddie.
And because the household grieved for him they decided to offer a house to a different little one who was critically in poor health.
Suzannah and Roald Dahl Nurse Lisa with Max (Image: RDMCC)
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Suzannah says: “We had adapted our home for Freddie. We had a lift from the kitchen upstairs, an accessible bedroom and bathroom.
“We had the expertise and abilities and most of all love to offer. And we had some very frank conversations with our youngsters about what we should always do with all that.
“Freddie was so joyous. It was like he had sunshine in his shoes. So we felt it was something we could do in his memory was to give a home to another child with
complex needs and bring some joy to them, too. And so we welcomed Max into our family.”
As a results of the complexity of Max’s situation, the household have been assigned Roald Dahl Nurse Lisa Smith, 48.
Suzannah says: “I bear in mind when Lisa first visited she listened to all we needed to say, I imply actually listened like she wished to study the whole lot about Max.
“This wasn’t the usual 20-minute appointment with a specialist.
“I have to confess I am one of those mums who doesn’t think she needs help, so Iwas a little anxious at first sharing the care of Max.I felt I could handle this.
“But Lisa made me see that the support Roald Dahl Nurses offered just allowed me to care for Max and the rest of my family more effectively.
“And she reminded me that if I didn’t care for myself I wouldn’t be any good to anyone. And then she said to me, ‘You don’t look as if you’re getting much sleep?’
“I explained that I’d been sleeping on Max’s floor so I could get to him quickly if he needed help in the night.
“’I’m not having that,’ she said. And because she knew we wanted to care for Max at home, she organised respite right here so that half the week I get to sleep in my own bed.”
Marvin the Crocodile is the charity’s mascot (Image: RDMCC)
As a Roald Dahl Nurse she helps them care for Max and navigate the most complicated of medical journeys at home and at hospital, and Suzannah describes the impact she’s had the family’s life as “extraordinary”..
She says: “Lisa brings a mix of compassion and real medical clout to meet Max’s needs, be it co-ordinating the ten or more specialists he might need to see in a week, or working with the school to help them understand his epilepsy, or advising us if we’re worried about his feeding or breathing or sleep.
“Lisa is so caring and considered and curious and gives us all such confidence in our care of Max. Roald Dahl Nurses have dozens of patients to look after, but she never makes us feel rushed. She always makes us feel that we are her priority.
“I’ve lived this life from both sides now – with Freddie without a Roald Dahl Nurse, and with Max with one. And the difference is transformational.
“Lisa reassures us about when treatment is needed or not , when to go into hospital and when to stay at home.
“That makes a phenomenal difference to us but also saves the family and the NHS a huge amount of time by reducing the number of appointments and hospital stays.
“It feels as if we a knight in shining armour by our side. She has given us the freedom to really enjoy our life with Max, and our Christmas with him at the heart of our family.”
Suzannah Goodchild is now a Trustee of Roald Dahl’s Marvellous Children’s Charity, working to assist them increase consciousness of and funds for the work Roald Dahl Nurses do and to make sure extra households like hers get this very important help.
Roald Dahl’s Marvellous Children’s Charity raises funds to ascertain Roald Dahl Nurses like Lisa in NHS Trusts throughout the UK.
There are at the moment around150 caring for greater than 36,000 critically in poor health kids arcross the UK. The Daily Express is supporting the charity with a Christmas Appeal within the hope of offering extra nurses to take care of 1000’s extra kids with lifelong diseases.
A Christmas thanks from Louise Griew, CEO of Roald Dahl’s Marvellous Children’s Charity
Louise Griew CEO of Roald Dahl’s Marvellous Children’s Charity (Image: RDMCC)
We believe every child who has a lifelong and complex health condition deserves a Roald Dahl Nurse. We have been so moved by your response to the work of our charity. The messages we’ve received from Express readers, and the donations you’ve made have been so kind and will make a real difference.
We know your letters and donations are in response to the families who’ve shared their stories on these pages and the extraordinary Roald Dahl Nurses who care for them and many other families with children who live with some of the most serious, complex and life-long conditions.
When a child is diagnosed with a complex condition families can easily become overwhelmed by a combination of financial, emotional and practical pressures (think the equipment, the medications, the hospital appointments) even while they have all the same hopes and dreams for their children as anyone else.
Although lots of you might have by no means heard of our Roald Dahl Nurses I hope you’ve been in a position to see the influence they make on the lives of the youngsters you’ve met by means of the Appeal – like Max or Maisie, Sadie or Ada. They and their households have felt the advantages of a Roald Dahl Nurse in hospital and at dwelling.
Suzannah whose story options right now was a father or mother who hadn’t come throughout Roald Dahl Nurses when she was citing her son Freddie who was born disabled because of mind injury. He would have been 20 now however handed away when he was 12. But his life formed Suzannah and Andy’s household life, and the whole lot they did subsequent – together with selecting to foster Max.
Now Suzannah is feeling the distinction of Roald Dahl Nursing on daily basis because of the care of her Roald Dahl Nurse Lisa, and all the advantages she brings Max so he can stay the fullest life, and – because of this – to her different kids who can share the expertise in such a constructive approach too. Suzannah is a father or mother who can converse to the distinction a Roald Dahl Nurse makes, and why it issues. Please learn their story, and please donate what you possibly can. You are MARVELLOUS readers so thanks for all of your help.
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