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As Gillian Brisley and her husband, Pete, watched their son-in-law’s launch from captivity on Saturday morning, she clutched a teddy bear to her chest.

It was a reminder of all the pieces the household has suffered since Hamas militants attacked Israel on Oct. 7, 2023, killing their daughter, Lianne Sharabi, and teenage granddaughters, Noiya and Yahel, whereas taking son-in-law Eli Sharabi hostage. Eli’s brother Yossi was additionally killed.

The stuffed toy, which as soon as belonged to Lianne, was a tangible hyperlink between the Brisleys and occasions within the Middle East as they watched the hostage handover unfold on TV at their dwelling in South Wales.

“While Gill was crying, she was holding on to the teddy bear, which was Lianne’s from the age of about 10 years old and which we were lucky enough to find on Kibbutz Be’eri when we went to the house,” Pete Brisley stated. “When we went to the house, it was filthy, bullet holes everywhere. So we tidied up the house, tidied up the garden, so if Eli wanted to come home to it then it looks reasonable because it was an absolute shambles.”

Even that straightforward cleanup was an act of religion as a result of the household had acquired no phrase on Sharabi in any respect because the militants took him again to Gaza with greater than 200 different hostages.

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Out of nowhere, the Brisleys had been instructed Friday that Sharabi, 52, was to be one in all three hostages launched the subsequent day. So they received up early Saturday morning to see their son-in-law stroll free.

The second was bittersweet. They had been thrilled that he was lastly free however horrified by the pale, emaciated determine they noticed on TV. This wasn’t the swarthy, strong man they final noticed 18 months in the past. The spark that all the time glinted in his eyes was gone.

“He looks as though he’s been to Belsen,’’ Pete Brisley said, referring to the World War II concentration camp.

Sharabi’s release also triggered other emotions for family members, who had suppressed their grief by focusing their energies on securing his freedom.

When asked how she felt, Gillian Brisley said she was relieved he was free. But there was more to say.

“The emotion of seeing him also then brought the grief of losing our girls right up to our throats,” she stated. “We just sat here and we cried. We cried for our loss. We cried with relief that Eli was on his way home. We cried for Yossi. Just, you know, mixed emotions.”

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Then there’s the persevering with concern for Sharabi.

The household doesn’t know whether or not Sharabi was instructed about what occurred to his spouse and daughters earlier than he was launched. They hope he was, in order that he doesn’t should course of that grief after surviving 490 days in captivity, stated Stephen Brisley, Lianne’s brother.

Lianne met Eli Sharabi on a three-month work expertise task at Kibbutz Be’eri, married after which made her dwelling in Israel.

Naturally, the bear got here alongside. Growing up in Wales, the bear was a part of the household.

When they had been being naughty, her brothers would disguise the bear from her, or stick it in a drawer with solely its toes dangling out, Stephen Brisley remembered. It additionally participated in tea events on the bed room ground and sat within the viewers as the youngsters pretended to carry rock live shows with tennis rackets for guitars and broomsticks for microphones.

For a household that isn’t spiritual and doesn’t discover energy in prayer, the bear now gives a hyperlink to misplaced family members.

“Mum has found it a great comfort to speak to Leanne’s bear, and she says basically she speaks to the bear every morning, every evening and she speaks to the bear as though she’s talking to Leanne,” Stephen Brisley stated.

“I believe it’s been a cathartic expertise for her. … It’s a tangible form of bodily connection to any individual that you would be able to’t have that actual hug with.’’